a dilemma that I’m familiar with

“I told my wife I wanted to come back a little earlier than what we had planned so I could see the finale of “Lost” on Wednesday night,” Montoya said. “She didn’t appreciate that too much.”“She said, ‘What do you want to do that for? You don’t want to be with me?’ I said ‘Yes, but it’s the “Lost” finale episode.’ And so she said, ‘Um, um. Do whatever you want to do.’ That means no.”

NASCAR driver Juan Pablo Montoya who decided to fly home early to his native Columbia while weighing priorities